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{"id":2998,"date":"1909-01-05T11:11:53","date_gmt":"1909-01-05T19:11:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/johnnealjr.com\/?p=2998"},"modified":"2016-06-26T14:47:10","modified_gmt":"2016-06-26T21:47:10","slug":"emotional-intelligence-time-get-monday","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/johnnealjr.com\/emotional-intelligence-time-get-monday\/","title":{"rendered":"Emotional Intelligence | Time To Get It Monday"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"video-embed\" style=\"max-width:640px;\"><div class=\"flex-mod\"><iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/embed\/GAgfo09v4aA\" class=\"iframevideo\"><\/iframe><\/div><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3><strong>EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Emotional intelligence is something one doesn&#8217;t hear every day. It is not a commonly used term. What does it actually mean? Well, that a person can handle adverse situations maturely. Does this mean perfection and an individual will no longer experience conflict? Absolutely not, in fact it is the opposite. Everyone experiences conflict in life, it does not matter what your gender, race, culture, background or mindset is. In other words, you can be the nicest person in the world and conflict will come about. Just because I state this fact doesn&#8217;t mean your doomed.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>CONFLICT<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Conflict derives from a difference of opinion and upbringing, therefore it happens automatically. How can one better deal with it is the real question. The better we understand ourselves and others will help. One has to consider being open minded in life. For example if you are at a store, you and another person are reaching at the same item and there is only one left, what do you do? Will you allow her to have the watermelon although you have been craving it? I cannot tell you how to deal with this scenario, however most people won&#8217;t care about the feelings of the other person. What if you decided to look at a cantaloupe instead? What would this mean? This could become a win win situation. Why? Most people feel good after giving. Although it wasn&#8217;t a gift you purchased, it was the act of kindness. Also you have choices, cantaloupe, strawberries, grapes, apples and oranges. Even if some fruits are not in season there will be plenty to choose from.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>EMOTIONS &amp; ATTITUDE<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>You see your emotions can sometimes get the best of you in situations. The reason this occurs is because of expectations. If one expects an outcome to be favorable it can affect one&#8217;s attitude. In other words, if we feel like we were let down. Sometimes understanding a situation is helpful, think about it!<\/p>\n<h3><strong>SOLUTION ORIENTED<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Emotional intelligence allows individuals to process many outcomes before they occur, which gives us an opportunity to make the best decision. We don&#8217;t always get our way, however it can help us in our discovery as a person. As stated earlier perception is reality. Life should consist of maximizing relationships. We have the power and ability to influence others.<\/p>\n<!-- AddThis Advanced Settings generic via filter on the_content -->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE Emotional intelligence is something one doesn&#8217;t hear every day. It is not a commonly used term. What does it actually mean? Well, that a person can handle adverse situations maturely. Does this mean perfection and an individual will no longer experience conflict? Absolutely not, in fact it is the opposite. 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